What is it like to be coached by Tara Chiari? Here is what our clients have to say:
“When I started working with Tara, I was in a rough place. As an older mom of a toddler working a grueling job in corporate America, I felt like my chance to make my childhood (and adult!) dream of being a writer was never going to happen. I had too many responsibilities and too much at stake to sacrifice my well-paying job. Unfortunately, that well-paying job had become intolerable.
In our first session, Tara rightly pointed out that I was talking in “either or” extremes, thinking that my life had to be either all soul-crushing business or all footless-and-fancy-free writing. I learned that neither alone would serve me well and realized that there were ways to make both of them work together in my life, and even compliment each other. Tara was wonderful at pointing out out my strengths and weaknesses, and finding patterns in things I said. Through her, I began to understand the power I hold at my job and how I could use that to make myself happier. I did and I am! And if I did so once, I can do it again.
I now feel that I have a calm confidence rather than a fearful franticness about my job. I now feel like I can say yes to things that work and no to things that don’t. She showed me that I can make decisions without regret. Tara’s kindness and her firm, thoughtful approach to our conversations made it easier to accept myself and grow. She led me to not only acknowledge the life I want, but to OWN it. The difference is the drive I now feel to achieve it!
Working with Tara also led to a bunch of other delightful side wins. Although I was focusing on my career with her, that motivation and attention spread into other areas of my life. In six months, I also lost 20 pounds, enhanced my relationship with my husband, and enjoyed a vacation.
For me, Tara was faster and more efficient than therapy. Instead of spending time deconstructing the past, we immediately dove into what my patterns were and how to hone them or change them going forward. I appreciated the focus on results and change in the right direction, rather than change for change’s sake.
Overall, Tara was a step above both the other career coaches I’ve heard about from friends and my other previous coaching experience in a group. What made Tara so unique was her targeted flexibility. I really DID have a custom program tailored exactly to me. The mental exercises we went through would only apply to me in my specific situation. We started out with some questionnaires to begin the process, but as soon as their usefulness wore off, Tara was willing to stop using them. She was very comfortable forging ahead in any direction I went, and adjusted her coaching to where I was at the moment and what I needed.
She is an amazing listener. Her prior experience in the corporate world definitely showed – she easily followed my long, convoluted stories filled with business acronyms. I was impressed that she remembered the byzantine hierarchy of players in my company and how they fit into my story – I didn’t have to waste time rehashing or reexplaining.
Before each of our first few sessions, I became all skeptical and second guessed myself, thinking, “Is this time/money/effort really worth it?” And then, by the end of the session, I’d always realize it was. By the end of our time together (I purchased a package of sessions), I had accomplished everything I had hoped to with her. I am happier at work, writing like it’s my job (which it is), and generally happier all around. I have a plan. I know how to deal with the obstacles. And I’m taking action!
I am so pleased and satisfied that I chose to invest in my own happiness and take this journey with Tara. She is a true professional and genuinely knows how to coach all different kinds of people into the lives that they want. I highly recommend her!” J.L. – Director of Content Development
“After two Ivy League degrees and 18 years of following a relatively straight and prescribed career path in finance, I found myself feeling lost – unaccomplished, unfulfilled and unqualified to be doing anything other than exactly what I was doing. At 40 years old, I felt stuck in my position – unable to start over and unable to leverage my skills to maintain or improve my compensation. I started working with Tara six months ago in the hopes that she could help me identify career adjustments that would make me excited to get out of bed and go to work.
My experience with Tara was very unexpected, and magical in my opinion. I had expected that we would have a few conversations about my experience and interests, and she would make some recommendations of career choices, help me with my resume and coach me for interviews. Our engagement was nothing of the sort. She literally deconstructed me….or rather forced me to deconstruct myself through a variety of exercises that I initially thought were a formality, but forced me to dig deep and ask myself some very hard questions. I learned quite a bit about myself. With this new and better information, together, we were able to identify a few interesting career choices that not only leveraged my existing skills (which I had very much discounted), but were also interesting and exciting to me. This realization gave me confidence that I have not had for a long time.
Together we have worked through an execution plan to transition from my current career to my next. She is with me and coaching me through every step of the way from my strategy, to my Influence Letters (aka Thank you notes), to evaluating my choices, to researching, and most importantly, to my emotions.
I was an unassembled 1,000 piece jigsaw puzzle when I started working with Tara. During each one hour session we are extremely productive in putting critical pieces together to see what my career path should, could, and will look like.
While I am sure Tara is quite adept at helping those who are interested to accelerate their careers on an existing path, she is VERY powerful in helping someone pivot their career after traveling down a long road and realizing they are lost.
Lastly, I think it is important to point out that Tara is not a seasoned expert in my particular field (the old one or the new one), but accurately interpreted all of the complexity and minutia, and was able to weed through it to get to the core concepts and issues that needed to be addressed. Regardless of your industry, I am very confident she will be able to guide you and provide powerful insight.” – Amy, Marketing Director to Hedge Fund Group / Entrepreneur
“As an aspiring executive leader, Tara’s executive coaching was appropriate for my current level of expertise and was provided as part of my Executive MBA program at Montclair State University. I was impressed with Tara’s ability to guide me to help myself become a better individual by offering me clarity and a definitive path forward. Although much was accomplished during and in between our sessions, I never felt overwhelmed by the advice given. If you are willing to keep an open-mind, this type of coaching will help lead you towards your goals. I would definitely consider using Tara as my executive coach again and I would strongly recommend her to my friends and colleagues. It was enjoyable and rewarding experience.” – Frank Cunha III, AIA, Architect
“Tara was a great executive coach. She has helped shaped my approach with associates and other peers by providing valuable and insightful suggestions to relate better and to also suggest ways to increase communications with all parties. Coaching is something that I was skeptical at first but Tara puts you at ease and then challenges you to think outside the box. Tara’s ability to provide timely and relevant recommendations has increased my presence and has been important in my professional development.” H.M., Engineer / Team Lead in water-supply industry
“Tara was invaluable in helping me find myself in my career journey. She knew when to ask a question and when to suggest an answer. She knew when I needed someone to build up my confidence and when I needed someone to question my assumptions. Her coaching has been integral to me not only finding my next career move, but grow as a person.” – Zach Hochkeppel, Senior Marketing Executive/ Former GM & SVP Blue Note Records
“Tara’s executive coaching has been indispensable to my leadership development due to the core skills she helped me hone in and develop. Tara’s ability to truly listen and hear my challenges and compartmentalize the steps needed to set a structure for growth has been indispensable. Moving forward, these skills will be pivotal as I work to advance further in my career.” – Jill W., Equity Capital Markets Product Head and Chief Operating Officer at Credit Suisse
“There are moments when you’ve been working for so long that you need a refresh. I never thought I needed a Career & Executive Leadership Coach, especially after working in an industry for so long. I thought I knew it all. Times are changing and adjusting to those changes is how you stay relevant. Tara’s personality puts you instantly at ease to think clearly and I was able to speak freely, understand next strategic steps and exceed at executing a plan for my career and leadership development.” – T.P.M., Music Industry Executive from a major music label
“As an aspiring music artist/ songwriter/ producer caught in the crossroads of uncertainty and insecurity, Tara helped me clarify my goals and career path by making me ask myself tough and relevant questions. She’s an Olympian-level listener and a positive presence. I’m surprised to come to know myself better after going through her coaching services.” -J.E., Artist/ Songwriter / Producer
“Tara coached my business partners and I on launching our new business in Florence, Italy- a school of Italian language for foreigners called ‘Italian Me’. From the very first meeting, she was extremely helpful at guiding us to clarify our many ideas and dreams into achievable goals and supported us throughout every step of launching and growing our new business. We had a vision stuck in our minds and working with Tara as our coach & marketing consultant she helped to bring the concept out of our heads, to build it, step by step. She is always positive and finds the perfect words to encourage us even when we thought that everything was too difficult and in a dark place. And beyond the words, she also has a unique knowledge of business development & creative marketing strategies which has been an added value to her coaching services. I strongly recommend Smile Across The Finish Coaching if you want to be successful in life and business.” – Francesca Bertocci, GM & Director, www.Italianme.com
“I am amazed by how much the group career coaching sessions with Tara Chiari are helping me to achieve my objectives. The group sessions I am attending include a variety of professions and personalities – yet Tara’s intelligent, insightful, and flexible approach achieves an atmosphere of sharing and learning. She adapts her considerable skills to each individual to such an extent, that I am beginning to see the blind spots disappear that were hampering my advancement, and as a result, the responses I am getting in my search for work are great!” – Ilil Arbel, Freelance Writer / Published Author
“I reached out to Tara as I knew of her entertainment industry and coaching experience. I’m a singer-songwriter who also has had a corporate job. Tara not only helped me find a job that was aligned with my true goals and value system, she also supported me in my growth as a musician. I also appreciated her flexibility for scheduling calls and availability via email in between sessions.” – S.Z., Musician / Senior Project Manager (PMP) in Healthcare, Automotive & Business Consulting
“I’ve always been a fan of Tara Chiari in every way and I’ve loved seeing her evolve from a music biz executive role towards an even truer passion- helping other professionals in the entertainment and many other industries achieve their personal best. As someone who retained her professional services, she artfully helped me reframe a daunting and nuanced negotiation into a strategic way for me to get closer to my bigger picture goals. Tara is someone of the finest character, wisdom and experience- a bona fide triple threat. Anyone needing professional coaching should turn to Smile Across The Finish Coaching.” – J.L., Senior Brand Marketing & Communications Executive
“What has worked best for me in working with Tara as a Career Coach is that she combined her expertise as a Life Coach and Executive Coach to guide me through my career transition from all different angles that I didn’t realize were important or related. Tara was also very generous with her time between sessions with check-ins and feedback on communication materials which I found incredibly helpful to my job search success.” – Marc R., Financial Accountant
“A bright and positive coach who pushes for the best in her clients!” – MZ, Public Relations & Media Professional/ Recent College Graduate